Vulnerability is a trait where there are so many closed doors and there is no chance you will open it by yourself. The same with Happiness, Vulnerability it is a state. Apparently understanding which state we are in is more important than what had/may happen… and this more often than not will lead to new learning and the expansion of the self.
Choices are yours. However will you regret your actions…? Are your purpose authentic..? Are you being manipulated..? Most people are just exist. Some others even regret being born. Such is a life. You decide.